Well. Didn’t THIS year feel like one that might never arrive.
We had a bit of a flop of a New Year’s Eve, for various reasons, but no big deal. The year-in-review thing the news channel was doing was so depressing we had to mute it, but that’s okay. The nearly-deserted Times Square thing was obviously a giant change, which was GOOD! but odd. (And how many non-present “hosts” are we going to stack in the title as the decades go by?) None of us remembered to put fortune cookies on the list until about ten minutes before midnight, which was FAR TOO LATE TO THINK OF IT, especially when MOTHER ASKED SEVERAL TIMES OVER THE PREVIOUS COUPLE OF WEEKS IF ANYONE COULD THINK OF ANYTHING IMPORTANT WE NEEDED FOR NEW YEAR’S. I WAY overpurchased snacks, and I ALWAYS overpurchase snacks, and this was MORE THAN THAT, so that I felt stressed at all the things I was not eating. Also, somehow it accidentally turned into “Mother runs back and forth bringing snacks while everyone else relaxes”? We will be sure to avoid that situation next year, mark my words. MARK. MY. WORDS.
In the meantime, I think January 20th is a GREAT day to aim for a do-over. We can have all the leftover pizza rolls and egg rolls and mozzarella sticks and chocolate-covered pretzels and fun ice creams, and the champagne I wasn’t in the mood for, and so forth! And I can buy the stupid fortune cookies! And we don’t have to stay up until midnight, we can just go to bed at the usual time, because actually the fresh start is at noon! GLORIOUS!
I wish to discuss resolutions, if any of us have managed to make any at this interesting-times point in history. It’s okay if not. MORE than okay if not. Please don’t feel you should, if you’d rather not. Just abdicate the whole idea, with everyone’s full blessing. THIS IS NOT THE YEAR, unless you want it to be the year.
As usual, there is low interest around here in “I WILL CHANGE MY BODY TO BE SMALLER / THINNER / MORE SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE” resolutions. As usual, feel free to HAVE those resolutions, we cannot stop you, nor would we ever even consider attempting it, as many of us DO HAVE those goals, so DO go RIGHT AHEAD, and may it bring you EVERY THEORETICALLY-POSSIBLE ASSOCIATED JOY! But I feel like we have had our ears FULLY FILLED with that sort of resolution from EVERY POSSIBLE SIDE (media! marketing! friends! family! ALL OF CULTURE AND SOCIETY!), and that it is such a lucky thing to have places to discuss the OTHER kinds of resolutions instead, and I would like this to be an Other Place.
My resolution this year is to buy more Fun Clothes. My parents gave me this Christmas llama t-shirt in navy (I am an XL Tall in Old Navy and I take a 2XL in this), and I wore it on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day and felt super cute and glad to be wearing it:
And while this was not the original seed of this year’s resolution, it fortified and strengthened that resolution. Long, LONG have I envied Elizabeth her children’s-department t-shirts with pictures of sloths and llamas and rainbows and so forth! But there are companies that sell similar shirts for adults (I have this rainbow one in women’s 2XL baby blue)! And I have access to those companies via computer and credit card! So I am resolving to buy SEVERAL new fun shirts this year. Contenders so far:
A second llama Christmas shirt. (So cute how the links default to the men’s sizes, even if I select women’s before making the link! Super cute!)
Hello Kitty Christmas shirt. I only need maybe two Christmas t-shirts total, but this is what’s in my cart right now. (Again, wow, the link goes the MEN’S shirt! Yay! Love it!)
Library card shirt, for if the pandemic is ever over and I can go back to my library job.
Robin Hood fox shirt. FIRST/EARLY CRUSH FOR SO MANY OF US.
Raccoon Royalty shirt. I love MANY of these shirts, but the fact that they give a “Tee Tip!” that “many customers prefer” to “order a size or two up!”—but it turns out “customers” “prefer” this only if they are customers ordering the Women’s cut, which is ALREADY available only up to 3XL, verses men’s cut which is available up to 5XL—meaning that apparently ACTUALLY they are offering women’s shirts up to XL and men’s up to 5XL, makes my heart turn icy and then, shortly afterward, catch on fire. Do please mention if you know of t-shirt companies that don’t think it makes perfect sense to offer shirts in sizes only for grown-men and teen-girls. I don’t WANT to buy from Amazon, but their 2XL women’s shirts fit my tall-torsoed non-skinny frame without making me feel as if I hit my maximum culturally allowable size at age 12, and I do value that. [Edited to add: I think the ABSOLUTELY MOST HELPFUL is when people can compare to other brands: like, if you say “I’m a S petite in Old Navy / Gap / Target tops, and I buy a M in This T-Shirt Company I’m Recommending and it’s a little long but not TOO long,” that is SO HELPFUL, even though I am not a S or a M or a petite.]