Baby Girl Harris

[I’m out of town for a few days but don’t want to fall EVEN FARTHER behind, so I’m leaving some name questions on auto-post!]

Christine writes:

Hello there! We would be ever so grateful if you could please help us in choosing our baby name! We’re having tremendous difficulty settling on a name for our little girl, due in June. We just can’t seem to decide on a name that we love. We’ve been thinking about it for so long, but we seem to be getting nowhere. Here is the scoop on us:

My name is Christine and my husband’s name is Jim. Our last name is Harris. My husband has two children from a previous marriage, Elizabeth (Libby) (age 15) and Zachary (Zach) (age 17). We also have a puppy named Ella (and I have a sister named Ellen), so we want to make sure that we don’t use anything too similar to either of those names!

First, I should let you know that we have decided on the baby’s middle name. It will be Judith, after my husband’s mother, who passed away a few years ago. I’m finding it difficult to find a first name that flows particularly well with that, but I’m not too concerned on that front. It would mean a lot to my husband to have Judith (or Judy) as the baby’s middle name, since this is the first grandchild born since his mother’s death.

As for Baby Girl Harris’ first name, my husband’s favorite option so far is Hannah, which I also like, but I am somewhat reluctant to choose this since we live in Montana (i.e., Hannah Montana). Also, I’m not too sure whether the alliterative effect of “Hannah Harris” is desirable or not. My husband really likes this. I’m on the fence about it as I’ve heard some people say that this type of alliteration has a cartoonish effect.

Personally, my favorite name is Abigail (nickname Abby). My husband likes this, but both he and my stepdaughter are concerned that it is too similar to Libby. I don’t think it is, but I certainly don’t want to name the baby Abby if it will in any way detract or cause confusion with Libby’s name. Likewise, both Jim & I like the name Olivia, but the nickname (Livvie) also seems terribly close to Libby.

Other names we’ve considered include:

Emma or Emily (although we are concerned that these names are just too popular right now);
Grace;
Natalie;
Paige (I like this, but my husband isn’t crazy about it);
Olive (my husband likes this, but it’s not my favorite);
Virginia (nickname Ginny);
Charlotte (nickname Charlie – with the caveat that my mother has already indicated that she doesn’t particularly care for this);
Scarlett (I am huge Gone With the Wind fan, but I am concerned that Scarlett Harris is just a little too close to Scarlett O’Hara); or
Sabrina.

What do you think of any of these? Alternatively, do you have any other ideas for us? Any comments or suggestions you have would be most appreciated! We are in quite a muddle right now.

20 thoughts on “Baby Girl Harris

  1. StephLove

    I really like Grace Judith Harris. Sabrina Judith Harris is nice, too.

    How about:

    Alexandra Judith Harris
    Chloe Judith Harris
    Delia Judith Harris
    Katrina Judith Harris
    Melissa Judith Harris
    Rebecca Judith Harris
    Tara Judith Harris (a more subtle nod to GWTW)

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  2. Robyn

    We wanted Judith as a middle name also (named after an aunt who had recently passed away) but I really struggled to find a name that flowed with it. In the end we named our daughter Sophia Grace Judith and I love it! Grace softens the name beautifully. Good luck with your decision :)

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  3. Shannon

    You have very similar taste in names to me I think because I like most of your choices! I think Virginia Judith Harris is a beautiful name and Virginia isn’t too terribly popular and unlikely to become a top ten name I think. Also Ginny is different enough from Libby. I can definitely see your concern with Livvy and Abby sounding a little too similar to Libby (although I think Abby would be better than Livvy if you had to choose between the two). Virginia is my favourite. Charlotte would probably be my second choice although that one is becoming quite popular again so I guess it depends how you feel about popular names. Good luck!

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  4. Jenn

    Hannah makes me think of Haley
    Haley Judith Harris
    (the alliteration with the last name thing doesn’t bother me, unless it’s a name like Andy Anderson or something!)
    Other ideas:
    Courtney Judith
    Corinne Judith
    Kathleen Judith (nn: Kat, Katy, Kate)
    Veronica Judith

    From your list I love Charlotte (other nn possibilities are Lottie or C.J. or CC…you can do anything really) don’t let your mom sway you, the name will grow on her. :) I also love Scarlett – though you are right she would be sure to suffer through at least the occasional Scarlett O’Harris joke. I really like Sabrina too- to me, that is a name with moxie! Though no good nicknames.

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  5. Katie

    If you went with Kathleen Judith or Katherine Judith, she would could be called Katie — which was Scarlett O’Hara’s first name. Don’t you remember her dad calling her, “Katie Scarlett”? It would be a GWTW link without being in your face and save her from jokes (I mean, seriously. Who knows that? Only people named Katie!)

    Savannah or one of the southern cities from GWTW would be nice alternatives, too. Savannah Judith? Melanie might be nice.

    And? I think being named after something your parents (or a parent) love is a great story for the child. My son is named Logan. For Wolverine from X-men. Once I mentioned it my hubby and baby’s older siblings glommed onto it. Later in life I think he’ll be amused, as it’s a normal name without being weird. So consider going with something you love as your inspiration, it will help create a link between you and your daughter.

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  6. Janelle

    Sabrina! All the way. Your other choices are good, but most of them have a drawback of some sort, or else they’re quite popular.

    Plus, there are so many great nicknames:
    Sab/ Sabby (Close to Abby, but distinct from Libby)
    Bri
    Brina

    And I think Sabrina Judith Harris sounds wonderful together.

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  7. Megz

    Of your names I like Virginia the best. I also like the suggestion for Savannah.

    How about Selena or Nadia or Phoebe?

    Or Tara (which I’d pronounce Tah-rah rather than Tarra). Has the GWTW connection and goes well with Judith and Harris.

    Have you considered Judith as a first name? I think Judith Emily Harris sounds great!

    Good luck

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  8. Sarah

    Anna! I think it fits neatly (stylistically) between Hannah and Abigail (two of my personal favorites), and you can call her either Annie or AJ (the best initial-name, imo). I also think Anna Judith Harris has a really good flow. (Three trochees, just to be a big poetry nerd.)

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  9. Patricia

    I don’t think Abby is too close to Libby, in fact, I think the two names have a nice sister quality to them — two biblical names with compatible nicknames: Elizabeth “Libby” and Abigail “Abby”. Also, the two sisters will be years apart in age. But in your situation, with both husband and stepdaughter not liking the similarity between the two names, I think Abigail might be a problem for your family if you insist on it.

    Maybe Adeline “Addy” (or Addie) instead?

    And how about Anna (Annie?) instead of Hannah?

    I’m wondering if your husband wants to match the biblical style of the older children’s names, Elizabeth and Zachary. Hannah and Abigail both meet that criteria (as does Judith), but if those won’t do, what about:
    Sarah
    Susannah/Susanna
    Rebecca (Becca)
    Rachel
    Leah

    Other suggestions:
    Katherine “Katie”
    Sophia “Sophie”
    Annabel “Annie”
    Caroline “Carrie”

    I think any of these would sound well with Judith.

    Of your names, I especially like:
    Emma
    Emily

    I think Judith might sound best with a traditional name.

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  10. beyond

    I like your list but some of the choices would be too popular for me personally.
    I like Virginia and Olive, and of these two Virginia might be better with the middle name. Plus, the nn Ginny is too sweet. How about:
    Camilla
    Cordelia
    Florence
    Gabrielle
    Viola
    To take some pressure off, you might take your two favorite names to the hospital and decide when she gets here…
    Good luck!

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  11. Carolyn

    Genevieve Judith (nn Genna, Gen)
    Alexandra Judith (Allie, Alex)
    Melanie Judith Harris

    Another GWTW link could be Bonnie.

    I tend to think 3 or more syllables in the first name will flow with ___Judith Harris.

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  12. M.Amanda

    I love Sabrina. It reminds me of Audrey Hepburn in the movie by that name. Such grace and elegance and beauty….

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  13. Frazzled Mom

    On your list, I like Virginia and Sabrina the best. Of the other suggestions, I really like Anna and Katherine (or Catherine) for you.

    What about Margaret with the nicknames, Meg, Maggie, Greta, Peg, Peggie? Margaret Judith seems a little off though. Maybe that’s why no one else suggested Margaret?

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  14. Christine Harris

    Thank you so much everyone! You’ve given me lots to think about and I truly appreciate all of the thoughtful comments & suggestions. We are getting very close to our due date now, so we need to make up our minds! On the Kathleen/Catherine/Katie front, I should have mentioned that my husband’s ex-wife is named Kathleen (“Kathy”), so those names are definitely out. That would just be too weird/awkward for all involved!

    Christine Harris

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  15. Adey

    Ah – I would definitely stay away from the “Kathy’s” then too!

    We named our daughter Nolana (pronounced No-lawna ~ Lana for short) and I thought it might suit your family as well.
    Nolana Judith Harris

    Other suggestions:

    Elisha Judith Harris
    Elliana Judith Harris
    Elodie Judith Harris
    Emmalin Judith Harris
    Jacqueline Judith Harris
    Jordan/Jordyn Judith Harris
    Lauren Judith Harris
    Leah Judith Harris
    Kaia – Makaia Judith Harris
    Kaydia Judith Harris
    Kensington (Kensie) Judith Harris
    Kelsey Judith Harris
    Macyn Judith Harris
    Melina Judith Harris
    Monica Judith Harris
    Seraiah Judith Harris
    Taryn Judith Harris

    I think a lot of them work with both Judith and Harris!

    I hope you find one you love soon!!

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